The Warnings of Wisdom: Proverbs 5

August 18, 2024

Proverbs 18:2 (NLJV)
A fool has no delight in understanding,
But in expressing his own heart.

Proverbs 18:2 (Amplified)
A [closed-minded] fool does not delight in understanding,
But only in revealing his personal opinions [unwittingly displaying his self-indulgence and his stupidity].

Alexander Pope: An Essay in Criticism
“A little learning is a dangerous thing.
Drink deep, or taste not the Pierian Spring;
There shallow draughts intoxicate the brain,
and drinking largely sobers us again.”

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The Seductive Nature of Temptation

Proverbs 5:1-6

The Destructive Nature of Sin: Proverbs 5:7-14
The Productive Nature of Wisdom: Proverbs 5:15-20

The Seductive Nature of Temptation

Proverbs 5:1-6

My son, give attention to my wisdom,
Incline your ear to my understanding;
2 That you may observe discretion
And your lips may reserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of an adulteress drip honey
And smoother than oil is her speech;
4 But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death,
Her steps take hold of Sheol.
6 She does not ponder the path of life;
Her ways are unstable, she does not know it.

Bob Dylan: Every Grain of Sand
Oh, the flowers of indulgence and the weeds of yesteryear
Like criminals, they have choked the breath of conscience and good cheer
The sun beams down upon the steps of time to light the way
To ease the pain of idleness and the memory of decay
I gaze into the doorway of temptation’s angry flame
And every time I pass that way I’ll always hear my name
Then onward in my journey I come to understand
That every hair is numbered like every grain of sand.

Proverbs 5:4-5

4 But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death,
Her steps take hold of Sheol.

The Destructive Nature of Sin

Proverbs 5:7-14

Therefore hear me now, my children,
And do not depart from the words of my mouth.
8 Remove your way far from her,
And do not go near the door of her house,
9 Lest you give your honor to others,
And your years to the cruel one;
10 Lest aliens be filled with your wealth,
And your labors go to the house of a foreigner;
11 And you mourn at last,
When your flesh and your body are consumed,
12 And say: “How I have hated instruction,
And my heart despised correction!
13 I have not obeyed the voice of my teachers,
Nor inclined my ear to those who instructed me!
14 I was on the verge of total ruin,
In the midst of the assembly and congregation.”

The Productive Nature of Wisdom

Proverbs 5:15-20

15 Drink water from your own cistern,
And running water from your own well.
16 Should your fountains be dispersed abroad,
Streams of water in the streets?
17 Let them be only your own,
And not for strangers with you.
18 Let your fountain be blessed,
And rejoice with the wife of your youth.
19 As a loving deer and a graceful doe,
Let her breasts satisfy you at all times;
And always be enraptured with her love.
20 For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman,
And be embraced in the arms of a seductress?

Genesis 2:24

24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Proverbs 5:21-23

For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord,
And He ponders all his paths.
22 His own iniquities entrap the wicked man,
And he is caught in the cords of his sin.
23 He shall die for lack of instruction,
And in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.

Discussion Questions

  1. Solomon warns his son of the danger of seduction:”The lips of an adulteress drip honey And smoother than oil is her speech”. Can you explain what he is saying?
  2. The Marriage covenant is described as this mystical bond that produces a symmetry between husband and wife. When adultery occurs, there is an asymmetry created. Can you explain how a couple carries on after that? How would counsel the betrayed spouse? How would you counsel the spouse who committed adultery?
  3. In a marriage where adultery has occurred it is said that: “The wound is permanent, but the repercussions do not have to be eternal”. How would you explain that?